Gender - the reality
Our culture only has two official genders: man (male expression), and woman (female expression). This is a loaded binary concept.
Gender is misused as a major reason for discrimination. Gender is often assigned the status of natural law, but it is not absolute, and its concepts vary over time and between cultures. The current social power structure rigorously enforces a set of arbitrary gender rules. This enforcement in some way damages everyone, but it is extremely restrictive for males, and it is literally devastating to those of us who cannot or will not follow the rules or play the right games.